...Naturally, adult children of a couple such as the one described above would expect the surviving parent to go through the grief process and need a lot of comfort and care for a while. However, more often than many would expect, Read more
...Goodwin says that keeping a journal was “like having a best friend that didn’t talk back—I didn’t get interrupted mid-sentence.” Read more
...Normally, all is well in caregiver support groups. People help and comfort one another, offer advice based on what’s worked for them in a similar situation, or just simply offer a much-appreciated hug — virtual or otherwise. This much-needed, well-meaning support can go off-track Read more
Brenden Adams John Carson Class President and Valedictorian Carissa Dalquest Salutatorian Liz Mascote Coach Gant, Featured Speaker Superintendent Dody Koen Hula Brylea Burnett and BOE member TinaRae Scott Nash Cooper and BOE members Kelsey Hartman and Marie Blythe Hayden German... Read more
...I refer to this as the “creep-up factor” because while many situations are far less dramatic than the one above, being an adult child adds the role of caregiver to your list that frequently includes Read more
Dear SN: In general, we try to honor the natural wishes of older adults which often means helping them live safely in their homes. However, dementia changes that picture. There are times when forcing the issue is the only option and it sounds as if this is where you are. How you approach this depends on the stage of your mom’s dementia. If she can still remember conversations, be compassionate but direct. Tell her... Read more
However, if mom is showing signs of needing assistance with her meals and transportation, I'd recommend looking around at assisted living facilities. Assisted living does not generally offer nursing care, and if help with dressing and other activities of daily living (ADLs) are needed, she'd likely still have... Read more
Mija Carlson, Myles Gant, Kaleb Litke Ella Kirk, Joslin Cannon Nash Cooper, Carissa Dalquest, Elle Dragone, Eli Kormanik, Liz Mascote, Alex Timm, Calla Unruh Mark Andres, Kellen Marshall, Lauren Brown, Rylee Powell Marvin Henton, Koen Hula Photos by Abi Bernhardt... Read more
We can certainly decide not to be bothered by this criticism. The problem is, we’re often unaware that we judge ourselves even more harshly and against much higher standards. This is particularly true in retrospect. The passage of time lends valuable perspective Read more
The Council Grove High School softball team are 3A Regional Champions after defeating Hillsboro 11-3 and Halstead 6-1 yesterday. The team will compete at State at the Manhattan Twin Oaks Complex on May 26 - 27. Liz Armstrong Jessica Filkin... Read more
This episode is like picking up a celebrity gossip magazine at the airport. We've got past and current celebrity crushes, real-life encounters with famous people, and hot-takes on controversial stars. Plus, the celebrities we might be able to reach if... Read more
...With AD, short-term memory is destroyed first. Therefore, while your spouse or parent may not know you as you look today (short-term memory), if you pulled out a photo album showing you 20 or 30 years ago, the person may recognize "you" immediately (long-term memory). Read more
You know what we haven't talked about in a long time? Knitting, that's what. This is because knitting has not been bringing me very much joy lately. Let me show you the things I have been stuck on, and perhaps... Read more
When a person becomes a caregiver, their world and their social circle tend to shrink. This is especially true if a care receiver requires around-the-clock supervision, is homebound or has trouble communicating. While there is usually plenty to do around the house, things can get monotonous very quickly. Being cooped up Read more
Mandy is expecting a little girl and is ... Read more
Dear GH: Unfortunately, this is a common problem that families see, but it certainly doesn’t make it easier for us to witness. I’m sorry that you went through it. The same thing happened after surgery left my dad with... Read more